Weekly Fraud Update from West Mercia Police - Economic Crime Unit - 12/05/2026

Weekly Fraud Update from West Mercia Police - Economic Crime Unit - 12/05/2026

ROMANCE FRAUD

We regularly highlight Romance Fraud as it remains one of the more common forms of online fraud. It is moreover a very damaging type of fraud not only from a financial view but also from an emotional view and the damage caused to the victim’s mental health and well-being.

It is also important to recognise that victims should be treated with empathy and understanding and not with blame, and shame. The criminals behind most Romance Frauds are skilled at manipulating and coercing their victims. They may use similar tactics to Domestic Abusers and are coercive and controlling.

The fraudsters will draw their victims into false relationship, gain their confidence, before the requests for money start to come in. These are accompanied by heart rending pleas about personal, or family problems, and emergencies which need finance.

Are any platforms safe?

Fraudsters continue to target users of popular social media platforms such as Facebook and Instagram, as well as dating sites such as Tinder and Plenty of Fish, and many others.

Messaging sites such as Google Hangouts and WhatsApp may also be used to find unsuspecting victims.

As well as conventional dating platforms, online Gaming platforms may be used to seek potential victims since there are fewer protective measures in place.

Who are their targets?

Females over 40 years are common victims as well as younger males, but users also need to be aware on age related dating platforms too.

How does it work?

Basically, criminals will go to great lengths to gain the victim’s trust by claiming they are in a genuine relationship which is built up over time

They will manipulate and exploit the victim to the extent they are persuaded they are in a real and genuine relationship

They create convincing personas such as military personnel, medical staff, engineers and many others to convince the victim they are genuine

Then, when they ask for money, the victim is convinced there is no problem with the request

The requests can be very emotive citing reasons such as medical emergencies, travel costs, payment of fines or taxes, or even claiming their bank account has been frozen

Another Red flag is “Love Bombing” which is a common technique where the person shows excessive interest in you by way of extreme flattery, strong communicating of their feelings for you and promoting ideas of your future together at a very early stage – beware if they get too serious – too quick.

Tell-tale signs a friend or family member is involved in a Romance Scam

They may be very secretive about their relationship or provide excuses for why their online partner has not video called or met them in person.

They may be unwilling to discuss their online relationship, very often because the fraudster has persuaded you not to tell your family or friends

They may express very strong emotions and commitment to someone they have only just met

They have sent, or are planning to send, money to someone they have not met face-to-face. They may take out loans or withdraw from their pension to send money.

Stay safe

Never send money to someone you have never met in person

Never part with your bank or personal details to strangers online however genuine they claim to be

The fact that they may request payment to another named bank account, not their own, can be another tell-tale sign of a fraudster

Always seek advice from somebody trusted before parting with any money in any format, whether it is bank transfers, PayPal, Gift Cards or bitcoin currencies.

Profile photos are very often fake; you can research any image by doing a “Reverse Image” search to find photos that have been copied from elsewhere.

Never share images of yourself that you would not want your own family and friends to see

Please feel free to share these messages with any potentially vulnerable relatives, friends and neighbours

If you have fallen for a fraud,

Report it to Report Fraud (formerly known as ACTION FRAUD) on 0300 123 2040 or via reportfraud.police.uk

Scam Text messages can be forwarded to 7726 to help phone providers take prompt action and block numbers that generate spam on their networks. You can also report Scam mobile calls by texting 7726 with the word “Call” followed by the fraudulent caller’s phone number.

Forward Fake Emails received to report@phishing.gov.uk

If you think your bank account or personal banking details have been used fraudulently, then use the short phone number - 159 - to contact the Fraud Prevention Department of most major UK banks.

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